What I've Learned From My Husband About Men

I've learned all the tricks to the trade as far as men goes from my Husband. And women...you must be aware of how this socializing and relationship works in the mind of a man. And trust me, most of our perceptions are the exact opposite of what we think we know.

I suggest reading a book by Steve Harvey called, "Act like A Lady...Think Like A Man". This book totally breaks the code of silence and gets right to the bottom of how men view, pursue, and approach women & relationships. Its not only a MUST HAVE, but KEEP IT IN YOUR PURSE!!!!

The One thing that I can tell you from all my relationship studies and research is this. IF A MAN ACTS LIKE HE DOES NOT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT SOMETHING OR YOU... IT IS IN FACT BECAUSE HE ACTUALLY DOES NOT GIVE A FUCK. IF A MAN DOES NOT CALL YOU OR PURSUE YOU IT IS BECAUSE HE DOES NOT WANT TO.

Men are not complex beings like ourselves. Whatever vibe you get from them is EXACTLY WHAT IT IS. I feel us women sometimes think we can teach them what we feel they do not know. But the truth is consideration and respect are in your DNA not taught. This why we can feel that after a talk or argument, the man in your life will change. And there we are so proud and happy that he FINALLY GOT IT. Then just as you settle in and move forward with the relationship a little while later they will be right back at BULLSHIT SQUARE ONE. The reason is we can not teach or change a man unless he wants to be changed and taught. Now the first step in change for a person is that person has to admit that their ways are wrong and the acknowledge  the need for help. Well all I have to say is GOOD LUCK WITH THAT. In my experiences men and their egos think they are perfect and right and the other person is the problem. Now there are always exceptions, but for the most part they will tell you that it is you and that the problem you have with them or their behavior is simply their reaction to your imperfections. Think About It.

If you havent seen the movie "He's Just Not That Into You". See It Right Away. It is a must!!!